The Loser is Psycho

Some time went by and the loser had made contact a few times only to threaten me or to claim that the baby wasn’t his. He would tell me if I keep the baby I better not say it was his because he’d kill us. He’d say I better watch out because he had people watching me. I mean, this loser turned out to be a total psycho. I changed my number several times, moved a couple times and he finally left me alone. He never made an effort to see or talk to the child. He refused to acknowledge that he was the father to avoid any financial obligations. That was fine with me as I didn’t want jack crap from him. I was better off anyway because I wouldn’t have to deal with this loser whatsoever. So it worked out fine. I took a year off from work when the baby was born because I thought the first year was the most important year. I really didn’t want to miss out on all the little things.



  1. Timiarah Camburn

    Good for you for being able to handle it yourself, but sorry you had to go through that. I dealt with one of those types before. Sometimes it’s best to let them go about their way, because if they turn around, they could make your life (and the child’s life) a living hell. The little bit of child support is not even worth dealing with a type A personality, which is sad for the child.

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    • Thank you. It was a situation that I desperately had to remove myself from or I truly believe I wouldn’t be here today. You are spot on about the child support. No amount of money would have been worth the torment of dealing with such a loser. I did what I had to do and never looked back. Thanks again for your comment.

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  2. Sorry that he was such a loser and you went through that. I don’t understand how people get like that over a child that they helped create. It should be a moment of joy, and not anger.


    • One would think, right?? Not this jerk. I have all kinds of names for him. He really put me through hell. It’s not a good feeling to be scared for your life. That was my own fault though, for giving him that much power and control. But just as sure as I gave it to him, I took it right back. I wasn’t going to allow myself to be a victim and I wasn’t going to feel sorry for myself and I darn sure wasn’t going to let anybody else feel sorry for me. That is why I kept quiet about it. Thank you for your kindness.

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  3. Just Plain Ol' Vic

    Good for you, realising what a loser he is but more importantly focusing on your family and what is most important!


    • Thank you. It took some trauma and torment but I got out of there before the real damage could emerge. At that time I did value my life enough to leave. These days the value has depreciated. Hopefully I can refinance and invest in myself once again. Thanks again.

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