Another time the donor had dropped in unannounced during a family gathering. I barely said two words to the guy, couldn’t stand to look at him. Just like before, it took all of twenty minutes for him to take off with my uncle so they could go to the “store”. I don’t know why he even bothers. He knows he’s not fooling anybody, especially me. He could get high whenever he wants, why would he do it during a visit to his offspring? Especially if he wants to win us over or get to know us. He never put in any real effort. What’s his excuse this time, “oh, they’re not talking to me so I’m gonna go out for a bit, but I’ll be back”. Lame!!! This is what made me hate him even more. I didn’t really have any respect for him because I didn’t know him, and the couple of times I did see him, made me not want to respect him even more. I despise this guy. Everything about him makes me cringe. I hate the fact that I come from him. Its terrible to feel that way about a “parent” but when this so called parent wasn’t a part of your life supporting you or watching you grow and decides to just show up and expect to be welcomed with open arms, I’m sorry, but that’s not how it works. At least not for me.